Do You Have What It Takes To Win Him Back

Are you trying to win him back? Are you sure that you're all in and ready willing and prepared to get your boyfriend back? It's going to be a bumpy ride full of ups and downs but in the end, do you have what it takes to stay the course and do what is necessary to get your ex back? Have you been struggling with all of this and you just feel like giving up at times? Are you happy and sure of yourself one minute and then driven to tears the next because the reality of being broken up come crawling back into your mind?

The truth is that your reality can be whatever you decide. Your reality actually is how you perceive things and how you feel at any particular moment. Just think about that for a moment and you'll know that it's true. The more you dwell upon the fact that you're broken up the worse you feel and the more you focus on all the positive reasons why you can and will get him back, the better you feel. Right now, you call the shots and it's up to you whether you want to believe that you can win him back or you want to believe that you won't ever hear those three sweet words that you dream about every night.

Your well meaning family and friends might try to get you to see that reality if you ever try to talk to them about your desire to get your ex boyfriend or husband back. They might try to point out that he said that it's over or that he has already moved on. These thoughts might even invade your own mind from time to time but the truth is that even if he left you for another woman you still can get him back. He didn't leave you because she was better than you and that relationship is going to fall apart all on its own. Of course, this doesn't mean that you should just be sitting there by the phone waiting on his call. Time is precious and there are things that you need to do to get ready for that opportunity to get him back.

This time is all about you, right now. Take advantage of this situation and make some changes and learn a few things about guys in relationships. Understand what makes him tick and how you can leverage this new found knowledge to your advantage. Once you do get back together you might wish that you had used this time more creatively so you can be more successful in your relationship but for right now, you want to have yourself together and be ready to make him yours again when the time comes.

One way of looking at it is, if he called you and said that he wanted to talk to you in an hour, how fast do you think you could look fabulous? Well, what if he just rang your doorbell right now? Would you really be prepared and would you know what to say and what to do to create that attraction based upon what has been proven to work well and without a hitch? That's how prepared you want to be. You want to know ahead of time how you want to steer the relationship and your inner and outward attitude and appearance needs to be near flawless. You need to be back to being the woman that he fell in love with if not better because he could show up at any moment.

You need to live in ever present expectation for that moment when he walks back into your life. You him to be yours and you want to be able to see it in his eyes. There's no telling when that moment will come but you can bank on it that it is coming. This whole thing isn't over by a long shot and if you are prepared and you understand the how and why your ex not only broke up with you but what it's going to take to get him back then your odds of getting him back are almost one hundred percent... as long as you have the guts to follow through and do the right things and not fall apart and beg him to take you back again.

Dream about this moment. Know in your mind already, starting tonight, exactly how you want things to happen when he comes back to you. Experience it with every part of your body and make it as real as possible. Feel the sensations in your body as you know for sure and without a doubt that everything is going to fall into place and how it will feel to have him hold you again. Don't let anyone or anything kill this dream. Protect it, nurture it and live the dream that you can get him back after all.