How To Get Him Back When You Broke Up With Him

Did you make a mistake by breaking up with your boyfriend and now you want to get back together? You would do anything to go back in time and do it all over again but that's not going to happen any time soon. You realize what a fool you were and you wish you had done things differently. Now, all you want to do is get him back but nothing seems to be working.

Was it something trivial that you fought over. Maybe you hadn't been feeling quite as much affection as you wanted and you had hoped that this would be a wakeup call for him. But now you're alone and you wish you had just kept your thoughts to yourself or handled things another way. You thought that he would fight for you or be upset but instead he just left and you are desperate for a way to get your boyfriend back.

No doubt you've already tried talking to him and explaining that you made a terrible mistake. You've probably told him how much you love him and how you'll never say those things to him that you said before he left. But, no matter what you say or do it seems like he is unmoved. Tears will not move him to show you mercy and your words of love are falling on deaf ears. Your days are dark and depressing and you know that if you could just get him back that you could be happy again.

Even though you might feel that nothing is going to help you to get him back, the simple fact is that winning him over really isn't all that difficult. Uncovering the love that still lies within his heart for you might be a little difficult for you to do giving your present emotional state but it's not complicated. Knowing what will cause him to see you as he once did with love in his heart should be your focus while avoiding doing anything that could push him away from you or potentially make matters worse. These are the two essentials when it comes to getting your ex back.

You might think that crying or pleading or asking for forgiveness will show that you really do care about your relationship. The truth is that these methods will make your ex lose respect for you and you will only be pushing him further away. Trying to talk to him about what went wrong or working through your problems so you can come up with a remedy for these problems is only going to turn him off too. After all, nobody really likes to talk about problems and his solution to the problems was to leave you.

Now, you might think that if these methods don't work then doing the exact opposite might do the trick. Maybe if you were mean to him or if you yelled at him or pointed out all of his flaws that he might get knocked down a peg. Will this help you achieve your goal of getting your boyfriend back? Will this make him think that he made a mistake by leaving you? These methods will only solidify his decision to leave and he might swear off ever talking to you again if you're not careful.

Knowing what makes your man tick and understanding how to use male psychology against him is the way to go if you are serious about getting him back. Do the things that will make him want you while avoiding doing the things that will turn him off to you or lose respect for you and you stand a very good chance of getting him back. Make a decision today to stop doing the normal things that most women do when they want to get a guy back like texting him and telling him that you're sorry and give him the opportunity to see you as you really are and begin to chase you and you can and will get him back.