Are You with Your True Soul Mate?

Today i was reading quotes about life and such and i ran across a bunch about soulmates. Now I've always considered a soulmate to be that one person (in the romantic sense) that meshes with you so well and you love them...your other half. I've also thought there are friendship soulmates - the people you meet and you click, you feel like you've known each other forever and get along soo well.

But this quote said it all different again.
""People think a soul mate is your perfect fit, and that's what everyone wants. But a true soul mate is a mirror, the person who shows you everything that is holding you back, the person who brings you to your own attention so you can change your life.

A true soul mate is probably the most important person you'll ever meet, because they tear down your walls and smack you awake. But to live with a soul mate forever? Nah. Too painful. Soul mates, they come into your life just to reveal another layer of yourself to you, and then leave.

A soul mates purpose is to shake you up, tear apart your ego a little bit, show you your obstacles and addictions, break your heart open so new light can get in, make you so desperate and out of control that you have to transform your life, then introduce you to your spiritual master.